Hello everyone :)
When I started this blog I was so happy about it, I was going around and telling people "Hey I finally have my own blog, check it out..." But the advices and feedback that I received where completely different than I expected, actually so different that I stopped writing.
Most common reaction was something like: "Great, I'm glad to hear that, BUT you should first read some of the famous bloggers before you start writing, or you should wright only about your work nothing private, update your blog at least 3 times a weak that's proved recipe, watch about your language it should be official but not too much official, NEVER say any bad word, blog is part of your online portfolio it need's to be professional....
With all due respect, I know that all these people had good intentions but FUCK THAT !!!
Professional, what does that mean in today's world? So if the person follows or more common today copy - paste all these rules in their CV, web site, blog... this person is considered professional? Since when is being your self not professional?
Ok, let me rethink, maybe I misunderstood the meaning of this word professional? When we work with other people we all have something to give and we want something in return, service for money, money for service, knowledge for favor... So for me being professional (referring to business relationships) means reaching the goal that benefits both sides in the manner that is pleasant for all people involved. That's why I follow some of those rules like, I want be late, I will be clean and nicely dressed, I will speak nicely so everyone can understand, I will follow the deal, finish the job on time... and everyone will be happy. If we avoid these kind of rules than it will be unpleasant for the people that are working with us so that's why they exist.
But when it comes to writing your own blog, portfolio, CV, I think people should be more what they really are because at the end we are working, functioning, depending on the other people. Sooner or later we see trough these words and by my experience so far I haven't met many people that really are what they wrote about themselves. So I was just wasting my time.
Ok, now many of you will say but professional sometimes refer to a person that is just good at his/her work. I completely agree with that. For last three years in Dubai I met only few people that where really, really good at photography but they never said this word about their work or themselves. You could just see it from their deed's and others people respect.
Like
Margaret Thatcher would say if you have to tell people you are, you aren't.
Power is like being a lady... if you have to tell people you are, you aren't.
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The truth is that most of the people will create certain picture
by reading your posts, blogs, by looking at your pictures, but when
they finally meet you, will they be disappointed or not, depends
only
on the fact how truth or false you picture is.
I know it's impossible but I'm just wandering wouldn't it be
easier for everyone if we all just cut the crap and be ourselves in
social media, public, private... we are all people and we all want
acceptance but how can YOU be accepted if what you are presenting its
not you?